IAT Coach
In 2024 my wife and I would go from having a pretty good relationship to a complete break up that included a restraining order for emotional stability back to having an even greater relationship then we have ever had before.
You see my wife and I both came from some challenging childhoods. Ones that included drugs, divorce, abuse, instability and more. These experiences would shape our lives and the way we handle our relationships. Despite our love for each other our subconscious wounds would ultimately come out in a dramatic way. One that became painfully obvious to both of us.
In early 2024 the subconscious emotions of our relationship began to play out. We both entered therapy but the emotional turmoil would only continue to increase. Then in early June my wife would hit me with a restraining order in order for her to get the space from me she had been trying to get. This restraining order would be one of the best things that happened to us. While extremely painful to go through, the time away would lead to new awarenesses, tremendous healing and many changes.
As soon as I left the house I found myself with nowhere to go. I had nothing. But the miracles would begin to happen almost immediately. Within just a couple of weeks my life was beginning to come together.
One of the things I found through this experience was the integrated attachment theory program. This amazing life changing program was created by Thais Gibson and can have a profound affect on how we interact in our relationships. Understanding and working on the 6 core elements of the program has been one of the most powerful experiences of my life.
The 6 elements of the program are
1- Core wounds
2- Needs
3- Emotions
4- Boundaries
5- Communication
6- Behaviors
This program helped me go from complete failure in my relationship to having the greatest relationship I have ever had in my life. I even went through Thais Gibsons integrated attachment theory coaching program. Now I look to share my story, the lessons I learned and the IAT program with as many people as I can share it with.
My story is about taking failure and making it the most powerful life changing experience of your life. I help people navigate the most difficult time of their life...a breakup with the one you love. I also know there is hope no matter how serious the situation looks. If you do the work and they do the work...anything can change and in the end it may be the greatest thing that ever happened to you.